Kentish Town
London NW5
UK
The world is full of non-consensual domination. Power is often taken rather than given: in the workplace, in intimate relationships and in the family. This hurts, and often results in us repeating the same negative patterns when we get some power ourselves.
In Ecstatic BDSM we work differently with power: the dominant creates a space of love and presence into which the submissive can drop and let go. By choosing to give up control the submissive experiences a deep and empowering surrender; by receiving control the dominant learns to wield power responsibly, with love. Through this exchange we heal the wounds caused by power taken against our will in other areas of our lives – and become more empowered, whichever role we take.
In this talk Sacred Pleasures founder London Faerie demonstrates this powerful practice with his partner marti. First Faerie & marti talk about the dynamics of dominance and submission, then you have a chance to witness marti receiving and wearing her collar. The collar is a powerful symbol of marti’s choice to submit to Faerie.
Once she is collared you can witness Faerie working with her in this state of chosen submission. You also have a chance to interact with marti while she is collared, to experience for yourself the pleasure and responsibility of conscious dominance.
This event is mostly a demonstration and you remain fully clothed throughout. marti will be naked and there may be some sexual content during the demonstration.